About Me

Hi, I’m Abi, and this blog is where I’m learning — and unlearning — my way back to my truest self.

For most of my life, I was a “fawner.” I said yes when I wanted to say no. I stayed quiet to keep the peace. I shrunk myself to fit what others expected of me — or what I thought they needed me to be.

But something shifted when I became a mother.

Raising two young children cracked me open in ways I never expected. I started to see how much I had buried — my voice, my needs, my boundaries. And I realized something: I can’t raise bold, secure, emotionally honest children if I’m still living from fear, guilt, or approval-seeking.

I started doing the work.

This space is my journal, my mirror, and my declaration. I’m becoming fearlessly me — not perfect, not hardened, but confident, kind, and unapologetically real.

Here, I’ll share the moments, memories, and mindset shifts that shaped me — and the ones I’m outgrowing. You’ll find reflections on healing, motherhood, identity, relationships, boundaries, self-worth, and learning to take up space without shame.

I’m still soft, but I’m not small anymore.

Thank you for being here. I’m so glad.